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What to Say When Someone Gets Laid Off

Layoffs can feel personal even when they are not. A thoughtful message should acknowledge the disruption, respect the person's emotions, and avoid shallow optimism.

Supportive message

Friend

I am sorry this happened. Layoffs can feel so personal even when they are not, and I know this is a lot to absorb.

Professional message

Former coworker

I am sorry to hear you were affected by the layoffs. You are incredibly talented, and I hope your next opportunity comes soon.

Short message

Quick outreach

Just heard about the layoffs and wanted to check in. I am really sorry.

Offer of help

Professional contact

If it would be helpful, I would be glad to review your resume or keep an eye out for openings in my network.

Message guidance

Why this works and how to make it land well.

Why this works

  • These messages validate what happened.
  • They sound respectful in both personal and professional settings.
  • They leave room for practical support if it is welcome.

What to avoid saying

  • Do not say it is probably for the best too quickly.
  • Do not assume they want advice immediately.
  • Do not make the company the main topic when the person is hurting.

Tips for being supportive

  • If you are a colleague, stay professional but warm.
  • If you are a friend, support the person before discussing next steps.
  • Offer one concrete way to help if you can.
What to Say When Someone Gets Laid Off | ExpressYou