What to say when flirting

You’re trouble—and I’m into it.

Why it works: Confident.

You’re a problem I’d like to have.

Why it works: Warm.

I’m making a move—are you in?

Why it works: Confident.

I’m claiming a second date.

Why it works: Confident.

You’re going to be a problem for me.

Why it works: Warm.

You’re exactly my type.

Why it works: Confident.

You’re kind of my favorite right now.

Why it works: Warm.

I’ll pick the place—you pick the time.

Why it works: Confident.

I feel like talking to you more—should I be worried?

Why it works: Warm.

You should let me take you out.

Why it works: Confident.

You’re going to get me in trouble.

Why it works: Warm.

When are we doing that again?

Why it works: Confident.

Dinner this week?

Why it works: Direct.

I notice the little things about you.

Why it works: Empathetic.

Why am I still thinking about you?

Why it works: Warm.

There’s definitely something here.

Why it works: Direct.

There’s a nice connection here, don’t you think?

Why it works: Empathetic.

I’m taking you out soon.

Why it works: Confident.

I don’t want to rush this, but I like you.

Why it works: Gentle.

I want to see you again.

Why it works: Direct.

I like how natural this feels with you.

Why it works: Empathetic.

You’re kind of distracting—in a good way.

Why it works: Warm.

Let’s plan something soon.

Why it works: Direct.

I like how we connect.

Why it works: Empathetic.

You crossed my mind again.

Why it works: Warm.

I don’t want to rush, but I like this.

Why it works: Gentle.

You feel easy to be around.

Why it works: Empathetic.

Would you like to grab a drink sometime?

Why it works: Gentle.

Let’s make a plan this week.

Why it works: Direct.

There’s something here, I think.

Why it works: Empathetic.

I feel comfortable with you.

Why it works: Gentle.

I want to see you again.

Why it works: Direct.

I like how we show up for each other.

Why it works: Empathetic.

You’re kind of fun to talk to, not gonna lie.

Why it works: Friendly.

I’m attracted to you.

Why it works: Direct.

No pressure, but I’d like to see you again.

Why it works: Calm.

I like how you think—it’s refreshing.

Why it works: Empathetic.

I’m still laughing about earlier—you’re dangerous.

Why it works: Friendly.

I like where this is going.

Why it works: Gentle.

We should hang out again, just us.

Why it works: Calm.

Would you want to spend more time together?

Why it works: Gentle.

You’re kind of my favorite right now.

Why it works: Encouraging.

We should hang out again—I had a good time.

Why it works: Friendly.

This feels easy with you.

Why it works: Calm.

You’re hard to ignore.

Why it works: Encouraging.

Talking to you is easy.

Why it works: Friendly.

I’d like to get to know you more.

Why it works: Gentle.

This feels good, doesn’t it?

Why it works: Calm.

You’ve got my attention.

Why it works: Encouraging.

I like you.

Why it works: Direct.

This flows really well with you.

Why it works: Calm.

You’re my kind of person.

Why it works: Encouraging.

We should hang out again soon.

Why it works: Friendly.

I enjoy being around you.

Why it works: Calm.

You’re hard not to like.

Why it works: Encouraging.

You free sometime soon?

Why it works: Friendly.

This feels natural with you.

Why it works: Calm.

You’re a good kind of distraction.

Why it works: Encouraging.

I like your vibe.

Why it works: Gentle.

You’re easy to like.

Why it works: Encouraging.

You make this easy.

Why it works: Encouraging.

You’ve got a great smile.

Why it works: Friendly.

I enjoy talking to you—it’s easy.

Why it works: Calm.

You’re fun to be around.

Why it works: Friendly.

I appreciate your company—would love more time together.

Why it works: Professional.

I’ve enjoyed our time—let’s do it again.

Why it works: Professional.

I’d enjoy spending more time together.

Why it works: Professional.

I’d welcome more time with you.

Why it works: Professional.

I’ve appreciated our time together.

Why it works: Professional.

I’d like to continue this.

Why it works: Professional.

I’ve really enjoyed getting to know you.

Why it works: Professional.

I’d like to continue this conversation sometime.

Why it works: Professional.

hi. thinking of you.

Why it works: Minimalist.

you + me soon?

Why it works: Minimalist.

you’re interesting.

Why it works: Minimalist.

thinking of you.

Why it works: Minimalist.

you + me.

Why it works: Minimalist.

miss your face.

Why it works: Minimalist.

🙂 you’re trouble

Why it works: Minimalist.

you’re fun.

Why it works: Minimalist.