Hey—was just thinking about you. How’s your day going?
Why it works: Warm opener.
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Hey—was just thinking about you. How’s your day going?
Why it works: Warm opener.
Hey—quick question for you.
Why it works: Casual opener.
Hey—it’s been a while, wanted to say hi.
Why it works: Reconnect.
Hey—wanted to run something by you if that’s okay.
Why it works: Invite.
Hey—just a quick hello.
Why it works: Light start.
Hey—random thought, wanted to ask you something.
Why it works: Soft context open.
Hey—how’s everything going lately?
Why it works: Friendly open.
Hey—this reminded me of you.
Why it works: Bridge open.
Hey—can I run something by you?
Why it works: Soft ask.
Hey—just popping in quickly.
Why it works: Light open.